That's... entirely unrelated to what I was talking about. I don't appreciate your attempts to derail my suggestions.

They left for their own reasons, and have been happy at home. Sure, I would love to see them try to reach out again... It's nothing I caused, nor is it something I can fix.

If what I'm saying is so preachy, then why don't you try to calm yourself and rethink this over.

All I have with me is common sense.